A person's approach to dating really depends on their theory of love. Do you believe that there is only one person out there that is right for you? I personally believe that finding love would be near impossible if there was only one person that was right for you. Furthermore, I believe that there would be a lot of lonely widows.
That being said, my approach tends to focus on this fact. You see, I think that a lot of the time people bounce from one relationship to another because they think there is only one person out there for them. For this reason, if they find themselves attracted to another person, they have to figure out of this person is the One instead of their current dating partner.
The truth is there are going to be many individuals you are attracted to during the course of your life. That doesn't mean you have to start dating every one of them. However, many individuals do this very thing and then wonder why they can't find the One. However, they will never be able to find the One until they know what they are looking for.
Since there are going to be many individuals who give you that funny feeling some people call love, you have to know decide what other aspects you want in a dating partner and eventually a spouse. When the feeling starts to calm down you will be left with bigger issues such as how many children you want, what religion you are, and where you want to live.
Thinking that there is only one individual out there for you can also effect your commitment. If you have already found the One, than you believe you are never going to be tempted by another. This is not necessarily true. If you are happy with the one you are with and they fit into your overall plan with all of the common interests mentioned above, then you can stop looking. Yes, there may be others who make you feel that feeling, but it is commitment that keeps us with the individual we have decided is the One.
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